You, yes you, are lovely because you have survived the experience of losing your loved one, held up through the illness or accident that brought the end to your relationship without your consent! You are up and above ground and must be willing to LIVE! When saying that it is meant that you must move forward and take the initiative to take care of everything! You are in charge and don’t let anyone get in the way of that freedom and decision. Yes, you have to decide that you are going to be in charge and make the most of the life that is left to you. No one can experience the grief and frustrations for you, it’s a part of living and one must walk that path one day at a time and the best way that one can. So my first Advice is GET UP AND LIVE.
That’s all for today – Remember You Are Lovely!